These are the 13 basic REASONS why he may eventually dump you :
1. YOU LIE TOO MUCH - Guys aren't stupid. They can tell when they're being lied too. Don't try to hide who you are because you think a guy won't like the real you. You can't fool somebody forever and once the truth comes out he'll never trust you again. So be yourself! We'll date you anyway.
2. YOU DON'T APPRECIATE THE LITTLE THINGS HE DOES FOR YOU - Some guys are horrible with expressing their feelings, but they try to in their own little ways. Sometimes it's something small, like picking up a cupcake because he knows you'll like it. Lots of times, actions like this goes unnoticed and unappreciated! If a guy is trying to show you he cares and you don't see it he'll think you don't care or you don't love him. Appreciate our little efforts,it boosts our ego you know.
3. YOU TEXT & MAKE CALLS TOO MUCH - Guys like to feel important. If you're on your phone the whole time during dinner they'll feel like you don't care about them. The solution is to turn your phone off so you can give all your attention to him. Seriously, we need attention too like babies.
NOTE: Some of these reasons are vice-versa. Some of the guys out there also do this. They should also borrow a leaf from these tips.
4. YOU'RE A PARTY ANIMAL - Guys like to have fun, but they also like to chill out. If you're going out to bars and clubbing like three times a week, soon your guy will get tired of it. First of all it's not developmental at all and it's wastage of time if overdone. Every guy wants a home keeper he can rely on, and not a club/party junkie!
If you want to be in a committed relationship you have to give up the crazy nights out. I am not saying your never party, but do it once in a while.. Too much,too bad!
5. SHOWING THAT YOU KNOW EVERYTHING - Women are smart; we all know this, but some women think they know everything. Nobody likes a know-it-all. When you're constantly trying to prove to a guy that he's wrong, he'll either withdraw or want to assert overriding authority. Even if you know you're right about something let it slide. Maturity says: It's okay to let someone else have the glory sometimes.
6. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO EAT - Here's a fact about this world: guys like to eat food. If you don't eat while he is, you'll make them feel awkward. You don't need to eat a cheeseburger and fries every day, do more than have a side salad for dinner. But in eating watch the weight, stay healthy. No man loves an 'orobo', especially if he fell for the 'lepa' that you used to be.. Fact!
7. YOU ARE NOT INDEPENDENT ENOUGH - If whenever life gets rough you run to your parents for help, it'll turn a guy off. It's good to have a support system, but if you're calling your mom because you broke a nail, because your guy never paid all the necessary bills, if he left insufficient money for launch at home, if he came back late, If he never ate the food you cooked… it shows you won't be able to handle the bigger problems when they come. Simply put - you're still a grown baby.. All men want a strong independent woman, that can be a pillar of support when the chps are down..
8. YOU DON'T WORK BUT YOU WANT TO SPEND LIKE A BILLIONIARE - If you want to shop all day long, you better have your own money to do it. Guys don't like having to sweat all day for one lazy-ass to come spend wastefully. Truth is, many of you ladies sometimes like competing, they like buying things that they won't use simply because they don't suit their standards. They like to poses it and fill up their wardrobe simply because she saw her closest female friend with it. Guys dislike this; they will dump you because of being a big sunreasonable pender.
9. YOU NEED TO CHANGE HIM - Guys like who they are. They are how they are for a reason, basically for a living. If he's a horrible dresser you can buy him a new shirt, but don't force anything on him. If he likes wearing pair of Jeans, T- shirts and sneaks, that is his style… Don't try to change him to start putting on suits that he is not used to. Just love him the way he is. If you aren't happy with who he is, find somebody else that makes you happy. But remember every guy loves to please and bend a little for the woman he loves if not compelled.
10. YOU NEVER DECIDE WHERE TO EAT DINNER FROM - If you're going out to dinner just make a choice and stick with it. Guys don't like making a decision and then changing it and then changing it again. We plan and we stick to plans.. If you want to go to more than one place, there's always next weekend.
11. YOU ACT LIKE THE WORLD IS ENDING - There's nothing worse for a guy than when a girl acts like the world is ending because her favorite salad dressing was out of stock when she went grocery shopping. Even if it means a lot to you try to let it go. Guys don't go all emotional about everything, if we can't help a situation,we are already thinking of the plan 'B' rather than sulk.
12. BEING SO FRIENDLY TO HIS FRIENDS - Guys don't make new friends often. The friends they have are for life. When you try to step in between a guy and his buddies all you're doing is creating a barrier between the two of you. A guy may dump you because of your being so close to his friends. He will feel insecure; he will get jealous and starts losing the trust hence leading to dumping you and even hating his friends for life. Don't be into his friends so much; don't communicate with them behind his back unless he is okay with it. Talk to them mostly when he is around with you. This is a basic rule in a man's world!
13. BEING A CHEAT - Guys hate ladies who think they are clever (e.g deleting chats or call logs, sms. Once he gets you, the trust will be lost, remember nothing stays hidden forever..
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