Ladies, welcome to the response post to; The 10 Things Every Woman Wants in a Man. I told you to watchout for it, now here you have it served on the menu. So settle down and lets have some real good meal....
As my other posts are,this’s
also my take on the basic traits that attract every 'real' man. and you'd be shocked they may not
be what you've always thought we wanted.
I encourage you to drop a line after reading this! No one is an island of knowledge, and please lets help these women with every little fact they can get from us!
Lets Ball!
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When we talk about
attraction, we are not talking
about lust (which is also a
form of attraction).
A man can be physically attracted to
a woman, without any
feelings of love, and this
form of attraction is purely
primal and is focused
completely on the "body" of
the woman involved.
What we are talking about, in this
article, is the attraction which
is synonymous with love.
Relationships are built on a
love based attraction, so
what's important would be;
know the traits in a woman,
that men find most attractive,
which makes them fall in
love
The following are some of
the traits that guys find
attractive in women:
SOFT HEARTEDNESS
Men are
more likely to fall in love
with a woman who is soft,
or warm- hearted , than a
woman who is cold.
Guys love to be mothered
(not nagged but cared for),
and so they tend to fall for a
woman who offers them
acceptance and warmth.
MODESTY
Men fall in love
with the "modest" girls, and
lust after the "hot" ones.
Modesty in behavior,
dressing and talking is what
men look for in their "long-
term" partner. Though guys
find "hot" women attractive,
it's mostly physical in nature
and they lose interest after a
few passionate encounters in
the bed. There is also a
common consent among
men that "hot" women are
less reliable, and high
maintenance. In short, men
love women who they can
take home to their mother.
(talk true, abi na lie ?)
BEING FEMININE
Most Men" like feminine women.
Feminity is all about being
soft, kind hearted,
understanding and caring.
This attraction is justified by
the fact that "men are
attracted to traits in a woman
which they themselves lack"
.
CHARACTER
Men are attracted
to a woman who projects a
strength of character and
integrity. The word "fidelity"
is becoming rarer nowadays
even among women, who
were historically more loyal
of the two, and men find this
to be bad news. So men are
constantly on the look out
for a woman who can
invoke trust through her
strength of character.
THE WOMAN'S VOICE
Women are naturally endowed with a
beautiful voice which men
find highly attractive. Some
men love a strong voice in a
woman, some prefer a soft
tone, with a high pitch.
Some women have a husky
voice and many guys find
that attractive too.
HER SMILE
A smile can easily win over a male heart.
If as a girl, you are prone to
having a smiling face you are
more likely to be
approached by guys than
when you have a smug, or
frowning, face. (try am)
HER EYES
Next to the smile,
this is another facial feature
that men get attracted to.
Some men simply fall in love
with the woman's eyes. The
eyes can speak a thousand
words and this is very much
true with it comes to
attracting men.
THE WOMAN'S HAIR
Most men get attracted by
moderately long hair or
anything close to shoulder
length as that looks more
feminine. Having said that,
there are a lot of men who
find women with short hair
attractive.
PHYSICAL FEATURE
As far as physical features are
concerned, men get attracted
to a woman's skin, lips,
height and waist-to-hip
ratio. Contrary to popular
assumptions real men are not
bothered so much about the
size of the breasts or derriere
when it comes to looking for
a life mate. Trust me, these factors are
pretty much insignificant.
SENSE OF HUMOUR
Men generally get attracted to
women with a good sense of
humor. A Woman who can
understand and laugh with
them. Sense of humor is not
necessarily the ability to
crack jokes but the ability to
understand and laugh at
one.
CONFIDENCE
Last but not the least,
men get attracted towards women
who make them feel comfortable and
confident. Woman who
supports them and the one
with whom he feels relaxed
and open.
So these are the ten
important traits that men
find attractive in women.
As you may have heard/read,
the littlelest things we barely pay attention to,
counts the most!
But again, every man has his
unique taste. The above
points are common to most
men but not for all. Look at
it this way. A man may look
for and get attracted to such
qualities in a woman that he
lacks himself.
For instance,
a tough guy will look for a
soft female. Hope you got
the idea.
So bear in mind that for every
woman there is a man out
there, so just relax and look
out for him.
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Regards...
@koredanielz
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