Must Read: Beyond The Banging Bodies and The Mind Blowing S*x

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It's amazing to see the rate at which our females are just radiating beauty everywhere these days. Omo, even the oldies are so much intimidated that they have began competing with the younger ladies for younger men more than it has ever been in time past. You go some granny like this ehn, o boy you go fear package. But as much as beautiful ladies are for grabs in every corner you turn, most of them are disappointments.

Some girls do not have anything else to offer apart from looking sexy. Argue all you want, but this is the truth. Most ladies spend all their time and resources on their appearance, just to look sexy -forgetting that a man is not going to remain horny 24/7, there are times he requires intellectual intimacy on issues that affects him psychologically, spiritually and career wise. But there you are… blank – headed.

I often watch African movies, and when a man cheats, the woman confronts her man usually with these words; look at me, what does she have that I don't have? I do everything to please you but yet….bla bla. That's about it.. but these women keep missing the point. It's not about the mind blowing sex or the banging body

There are times when he would only need a real woman to share his worries with and your miniskirts, long lashes, cream-induced hips, breasts and bum would not bring anything to that table. There would be days when he would need your managerial qualities, but you are only used to living lavish. And loving the hype you get on social media – Instagram Slay mama! Nothing frustrates a man more than a woman who contributes nothing to 'him'.

Look, men don't just get into marriage because of sex alone, if it were for sex alone, most men will not even get married. Why would they? When they have varieties of women who are professionals in the sex business, who would even 'serve' him better than you would. But then, it's more than just sex and a banging body. If you're lucky to get wedded based on your looks and body, when the beauty starts to fade and he's seeing younger prettier ladies out there , what will you fall back on?. Don't spend all your days making-up, doing nails and turning up anywhere a DJ takes his speakers to. Of course men like and 'date' the 'happening' girls but settle down and marry the ones that can contribute to them 'intellectually'. So, Build yourself. Learn and practice things that can add values to your life. Being beautiful or sexy doesn't prevent you from still being 'dumb and useless' at the end of the day. Some men would die for the curvy hips, breasts and big round asses, but the question on a man's mind remains ; do you have sense?

Men not only love, and not only respect but revere and adore women whose mental faculty is a breeding ground for super ideas, solutions and are driven by realistic goals – that's beauty, brains and drive.
Quote me, no matter how faded your beauty becomes, men treat valuable women like they just met them blossoming in beauty, and will always run back to them if he knows she's a major solution provider to his intellectual logjam.

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