17 Peculiar Traits That Makes People Born In October Standout

The best quality of people born in October, is balanced approach. They are known to maintain consonance between parties with their brilliant diplomatic skills. They are great thinkers and these set of rare beings are gifted with a very logical mind. Octoberites therefore are good at analyzing situations and come up with solutions. They attach high value to intellect. I am going to tell the never-before told traits of October borns because i am also one of them. So chillax and follow my lead..
Here we go….

   
1. Witty and Spontaneous They haven’t got head on their shoulders just for makeup and looking beautiful, look beneath the surface, it has lot more stuff inside than outside. Quick/Sharp wit, extreme curiosity, deductive skills, quick thinking and the ability to pick things up here and there as well as thoroughly research the matters of special interest make them able to speak on anything in public gatherings.

2. They Are Charismatic
This is a rare quality, but people born in October abound in it. Really, their charisma as well as charming and magnetic personality gains them many followers and you need to think twice before you contradict them. People born in October are very confident, they love to stand out (just as OctOBER stands out in the ‘EMBER months). All you can just do is to envy their personality.

3. They Are Romantic
People born in October are born romantics and lovers. They are very attractive to the opposite sex and they can easily win anyone over with their sweet talk. If your partner was born in October, you are lucky, because they will love you forever. Romance is in their heart and soul.
Driven by Venus, October born people are extremely romantic and best one’s to date, but can be a little flirty.They add love in whatever they do. So if you are confused whether to accept a proposal from an Octoberite or not?, GO AHEAD and grab it fast!

4. Emotional Intelligence
Those who celebrate their birthdays in October are at the zenith in terms of EQ. People born during this month are conscious of their own emotions and their social skills and empathy are equally outstanding as well.

5. They Are Peace Loving
These people love peace and they prefer a calmer and quieter surrounding. Due to this trait they don’t have many foes. People born in October rarely raise their voice and lose their temper, and they can find common ground with almost any person. True, they have easy going attitude. Octoberites are mostly active yet sometimes they are too lethargic. Usually its not that they are physically lazy but they believe in not taking too much stress on themselves.

6. They Are Hospitable
People who born in October are known for their caring hospitality and they are always happy to see you. They are not only polite but they also make sure other people are comfortable. I think this is a must-have trait of every person!

7. They are Meticulous
Octoberites are sometimes overly meticulous people, they engage in thorough thinking. This is somewhat a strength but if not well balanced consciously, it may end up posing a great challenge in decision making. as they always want to think everything through bit-by-bit before taking decisions. on the positive side being meticulous is a huge advantage as octoberians often come up with good and dependable decisions at the end of the day

8. They Are Optimistic
These people never lose hope and keep trying and they always reach their goals. Since their optimism is extremely infectious they can be good team leaders who have the art of motivating others with their positive attitude whenever the going gets tough.

9. They Are Charming
People born in October are very friendly and they can easily strike up an acquaintance. Their suave and charming personality helps them make new friends wherever they go and their happy, smiling face can light up even the darkest surroundings. You will be amazed by the charisma of their “Charming Personality” this is because October is the month of charm. Octoberites have special ability to positively influence others by connecting with them physically, emotionally and intellectually.

10. They are Independent, Tactically Smart And Achievement Oriented
People born in October are known to be independent, achievement oriented and they are good finishers. These people never leave anything midway and they accomplish every task no matter how difficult it is. They are tactically more a smart worker than a hard-worker. They know how to get it done, but they cannot be called cunning. Its just that they are too good to tweak the emotions of others

11. They Are So Balanced That They Can Be Used As Judges in Court
The Scales will never go to extremes, and will mostly choose the middle path in order to please everyone around them, whatever the issues may be. They are famous for maintaining harmony and balancing between two sides in difficult situations. They are also very level headed and therefore can be sought after for practical solutions.

12. Solution providers
You can get 10 times better solutions from october born people than the baba who chants incantations. Octoberites are good at analyzing situations and come up with perfect solutions that happily satisfies all parties.

13. They Love and Have Eyes for Good Things
Because they have a strong desire for material comforts, they may tend to waste a lot of money in unnecessary luxuries. But thats Ok, after all its their money

14. They Are Good With Words
Octoberites are good communicators with high intellect, they are often great with dialect, having flawlessness in different languages and are therefore good communicators and engaging talkers.

15. They Are Moody
At times they appear to be exceptionally positive,self reliant, accommodating, upbeat and cordial; while, other times there will be a low feeling in their heads. They do a lot of thinking and self evaluation and they settle a lot of things in their minds in their own. But if things don’t go well sometimes they get overly worried and at such circumstances they can be absolutely negative and to a great degree unfeeling to the agonies of others..

16. Their Word Is Bond
Octoberites stick to their words, vows and promises to the end. They rarely break promises without extremely good reasons for doing so. They are loyal and trustworthy, if they give you their word you can go to sleep feeling safe. This is the reason people confide in them more because of this rare trait.

17. They Are Compassionate
People born in october are compassionate to the cause of other people around them. Their philosophy is lets grow and be happy together. in the light of this , they show solidarityand great concern for others wellbeing

As you see people born in October are wonderful. They are friendly and optimistic and they have plenty of other awesome traits! Yet to make success kiss their feet, they need to work on their indecisiveness Sure, not all people born in October possess all of these personality traits, but most of them.

The most troublesome things for an Octoberite is to take a decision. They are too meticulous. And at the point when confronted with coming up with a quick decision it becomes a bit of a challenge, because they always want to weigh all options before decisiding on what to do, and this can turn into a major obstacle in their way. Just work on this and you will be the best!


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The Entitlement Mentality

One young man went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the initial interview, and now would meet the director for the final interview.
The director discovered from his CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent. He asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "no".
" Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"
"My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees." he replied.
" Where did your mother work?"
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner."
The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
" Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"
"Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, "I have a request. When you go home today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to her son.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when he touched it.
This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fees. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his education, his school activities and his future.
After cleaning his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, when he asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"
The youth answered," I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'
"I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, I would not be who I am today. By helping my mother, only now do I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done on your own. And I have come to appreciate the importance and value of helping one's family.
The director said, "This is what I am looking for in a manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life."
"You are hired."
This young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and worked as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop an "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first.
He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others.
For this kind of people, who may be good academically, they may be successful for a while, but eventually they would not feel a sense of achievement. They will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead?
You can let your child live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch on a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it.
After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way.
You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.
The most important thing is your child learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.
Please forward this story or its link to as many as possible...this may change somebody's fate.
Regards

THE COMMON TRAITS THAT ATTRACTS EVERY MAN

Ladies, welcome to the response post to; The 10 Things Every Woman Wants in a Man. I told you to watchout for it, now here you have it served on the menu. So settle down and lets have some real good meal....
As my other posts are,this’s also my take on the basic traits that attract every 'real' man. and you'd be shocked they may not be what you've always thought we wanted.
 I encourage you to drop a line after reading this! No one is an island of knowledge, and please lets help these women with every little fact they can get from us!
Lets Ball!
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When we talk about
attraction, we are not talking
about lust (which is also a
form of attraction).

A man can be physically attracted to
a woman, without any
feelings of love, and this
form of attraction is purely
primal and is focused
completely on the "body" of
the woman involved.

What we are talking about, in this
article, is the attraction which
is synonymous with love.
Relationships are built on a
love based attraction, so
what's important would be;
know the traits in a woman,
that men find most attractive,
which makes them fall in
love

The following are some of
the traits that guys find
attractive in women:

SOFT HEARTEDNESS 
Men are
more likely to fall in love
with a woman who is soft,
or warm- hearted , than a
woman who is cold.
Guys love to be mothered
(not nagged but cared for),
and so they tend to fall for a
woman who offers them
acceptance and warmth.

MODESTY
 Men fall in love
with the "modest" girls, and
lust after the "hot" ones.
Modesty in behavior,
dressing and talking is what
men look for in their "long-
term" partner. Though guys
find "hot" women attractive,
it's mostly physical in nature
and they lose interest after a
few passionate encounters in
the bed. There is also a
common consent among
men that "hot" women are
less reliable, and high
maintenance. In short, men
love women who they can
take home to their mother.
(talk true, abi na lie ?)

BEING FEMININE
Most Men" like feminine women.
Feminity is all about being
soft, kind hearted,
understanding and caring.
This attraction is justified by
the fact that "men are
attracted to traits in a woman
which they themselves lack"
.
CHARACTER
Men are attracted
to a woman who projects a
strength of character and
integrity. The word "fidelity"
is becoming rarer nowadays
even among women, who
were historically more loyal
of the two, and men find this
to be bad news. So men are
constantly on the look out
for a woman who can
invoke trust through her
strength of character.

THE WOMAN'S VOICE
Women are naturally endowed with a
beautiful voice which men
find highly attractive. Some
men love a strong voice in a
woman, some prefer a soft
tone, with a high pitch.
Some women have a husky
voice and many guys find
that attractive too.

HER SMILE
A smile can easily win over a male heart.
If as a girl, you are prone to
having a smiling face you are
more likely to be
approached by guys than
when you have a smug, or
frowning, face. (try am)

HER EYES
Next to the smile,
this is another facial feature
that men get attracted to.
Some men simply fall in love
with the woman's eyes. The
eyes can speak a thousand
words and this is very much
true with it comes to
attracting men.

THE WOMAN'S HAIR
Most men get attracted by
moderately long hair or
anything close to shoulder
length as that looks more
feminine. Having said that,
there are a lot of men who
find women with short hair
attractive.

PHYSICAL FEATURE
As far as physical features are
concerned, men get attracted
to a woman's skin, lips,
height and waist-to-hip
ratio. Contrary to popular
assumptions real men are not
bothered so much about the
size of the breasts or derriere
when it comes to looking for
a life mate. Trust me, these factors are
pretty much insignificant.

SENSE OF HUMOUR
Men generally get attracted to
women with a good sense of
humor. A Woman who can
understand and laugh with
them. Sense of humor is not
necessarily the ability to
crack jokes but the ability to
understand and laugh at
one.

CONFIDENCE
Last but not the least,
men get attracted towards women
who make them feel comfortable and
confident. Woman who
supports them and the one
with whom he feels relaxed
and open.

So these are the ten
important traits that men
find attractive in women.
As you may have heard/read,
the littlelest things we barely pay attention to,
counts the most!
But again, every man has his
unique taste. The above
points are common to most
men but not for all. Look at
it this way. A man may look
for and get attracted to such
qualities in a woman that he
lacks himself.
 For instance,
a tough guy will look for a
soft female. Hope you got
the idea.

So bear in mind that for every
woman there is a man out
there, so just relax and look
out for him.

 Please let me have your comments and please feel free to share this post as much as you can/want and should

  Regards...
@koredanielz

THIS LIL’ LEGION BEHIND ME

A careful leader i want to be,

Cos a lil’ legion follows me,

I do not dare to go astray

for fear they’ll go the self same way.

I cannot once escape their eyes

For whatever they see me do, the legion tries

Like me they say they goin to be

But to surpass me immeasurably, is my uttermost wish.

I must remember as i go

through summer, suns and winter snow
 I am building for the future to come

a one of a kind leadership movement of change,

with great offsprings not yet seen, in any generation.

How to get boys to like you

You've got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence if it's sorely lacking. Now, this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you feel comfortable in your own skin. You can be secure, sweet and humble all at the same time. Guys like confident, interesting girls who lead their own lives. The only guys who like insecure girls are the ones who are insecure themselves and want to dominate or control another human being. And who wants to be with a guy who wants a girl to feel bad about herself or who wants to tell you how to be all the time? That's not healthy, and you deserve much better.

Those Voices in Your Head !

If you have been under the assumption that only CRAZY people hear voices in their heads, I am here to set you straight! 

So called CRAZY people are just more vocal about thoughts that we ALL have going on. True... some folks suffer from a mental illness that dramatically changes what those thoughts are. It is scary to witness at times and important to be compassionate. 

But don't be fooled. Everybody has voices in their heads! 

We all have a running narrative that is constantly letting us know how things are going. What we or others are doing right or wrong. Giving us feedback that triggers our emotions, influences our way of perceiving the world and is directly tied to the action we take and the results we get in this life. 

Take a minute right now and check it out...
What is the voice in your head telling you?
Be sincere....